Saturday 19 July 2014

The Secret Trail



Traveling on the main road into the Dandora slum to train some young people - the photos chart our journey
 A few years ago some famous authors were asked to nominate the top ten books that they felt that children should read before leaving school. Ben Okri decided to respond in a wonderfully individual way by coming up with what he called his “10½ Inclinations”. These were his 10½ bits of advice to children (and adults) on reading.

1.  There is a secret trail of books meant to inspire and enlighten you. Find that trail.
2.  Read outside your own nation, colour, class, gender.
3.  Read the books your parents hate.
4.  Read the books your parents love.
5.  Have one or two authors that are important, that speak to you; and make their works your secret passion.
6.  Read widely, for fun, stimulation, escape.
7.  Don’t read what everyone else is reading. Check them out later, cautiously.
8.  Read what you’re not supposed to read.
9.  Read for your own liberation and mental freedom.
10. Books are like mirrors. Don’t just read the words. Go into the mirror. That is where the real secrets are. Inside. Behind. That’s where the gods dream, where our realities are born.
10½ Read the world. It is the most mysterious book of all.

I just discovered these a few days ago on the wall of a toilet in a delightful new coffee shop near where we live in Nairobi. (Toilets often have good sources of light reading)


Jane and I try and read all the time if we can. The greatest joy is reading out loud to one another. Reading out loud makes me slow down, to enjoy the words twice over. Some books we have even read twice over – literally. John Green's The Fault In Our Stars is one such book (I’m hesitant to see the film –only about 2 or 3 films EVER have hit the magic of the books they come from). Richard Rohr’s Falling Upwards is another ‘second time round’ read.



What else has been part of our journey, our secret trail over these months in Nairobi? The Cellist Of Sarajevo was simply breathtaking in the quality of its writing and the understated capture of that famous siege. Elizabeth Gilbert’s (Eat Pray Love lady) book Committed is a book that should be giving to every couple considering marriage. It is the most honest, wide-ranging exploration of the topic and it’s written with such depth and humour.  Al Gore’s The Future is for anyone in any position of leadership who needs to ‘read the world’.  Rabbi Joshua Abraham Herschel opened my eyes to the simple beauty of the Mitzvot – the small acts of kindness that put this often-crazy world back together again.


 
Who are my ‘one or two authors”? It has to be John Le Carre and Kazuo Ishiguro. Every time we pass through airports I glance up at the Airport Exclusives’ in WH Smiths looking out for the latest from both of these guys. Gary Haugen’s latest book The Locust Effect was a challenging reminder to keep on doing what we are doing here - “why the end of poverty requires the end of violence”
Nairobi has plenty of both!


Brene Brown’s book Daring Greatly did a great work in us - subtitled “How the courage to be vulnerable transforms the way we live, love, parent and lead”. It left us knowing that ‘we are enough’ and that ‘it is not the critic who counts, but the person who is actually in the arena.”

The joy of reading is what the books do in us both, the conversations that they spawn, the learning they give, the world they open us inside ourselves, the new lens they give us to look at our world.

"Books are like mirrors. Don’t just read the words. Go into the mirror. 
That is where the real secrets are. Inside. Behind. 
That’s where the gods dream, where our realities are born"

- TW


Arriving in the Dandora slum